The true of love

To My Friends Who Are...........SINGLE

給我單身朋友們

Love is like a butterfly. The more you chase it, the more it eludes you. But 愛就像一隻蝴蝶。越要追牠，他卻越要逃跑。

if you just let it fly, it will come to you when you least expect it. 如果就隨牠自由的飛，牠會在你最不经意時飛向你。

Love can make you happy but often it hurts, but love's only special when you give it to someone who is really worth it.

愛能使人快樂，但却常傷害人。但只有在你把愛給了一個真正值得付出的人時，才是最珍貴的。

So take your time and choose the best. 所以，花點時間去選擇最好的他/她吧



To My Friends Who Are............PLAYBOY/GIRL TYPE

給我玩世不恭的朋友們

Never say 'I love you' if you don't care. Never talk about feelings if they aren't there. 如果你不在乎，不要說'我愛你'。没有感觉的时候，不要说有

Never touch a life if you mean to break a heart. 如果你将会让他/她伤心，那就不要涉足會使他/她的生活。

Never look in the eye when all you do is lie. 如果你说的是谎言，不要看著他/她的眼睛。

The cruelest thing a guy can do to a girl is to let her fall in love when he doesn't intend to catch her fall. It works both ways...

最殘忍的事莫過於男人讓女人愛他，卻是逢場作戲。反之亦然…



To My Friends Who Are............NAIVE

給我所有天真的朋友們

How to be in love: Fall but don't stumble, be consistent but not too persistent, 要如何戀愛？--去投入，但不要犹豫不决；去坚持，但不要固執；

share and never be unfair, understand and try not to demand, and get hurt but never keep the pain. 去分享，但不要有不公；去理解，但不要强求；去受傷了，但不要記恨。




To My Friends Who Are............POSSESSIVE

給我占有欲强的朋友們

It breaks your heart to see the one you love happy with someone else 看到你所愛的他/她和其他人在一起很快樂会使你心碎

but it's more painful to know that the one you love is unhappy with you. 但知道你所愛的他/她和你在一起不快樂更令人的傷心。



To My Friends Who Are............NOT SO SINGLE

給我那不是單身的朋友們

Love isn't about becoming somebody else's 'perfect person.' 愛不是让自己变成对方的“完美情人”

It's about finding someone who helps you become the best person you can be. 却是寻找一个能幫你成長为你所能成为的最优秀的人



To My Friends Who Are............HEARTBROKEN

給我心碎的朋友們

Heartbreaks last as long as you want and cut as deep as you allow them to go. 心碎的有多久，心碎的有多深，完全取決於你自已。

The challenge is not how to survive heartbreaks but to learn from them. 難的不是從傷痛中爬起，而是如何从中學習。



To My Friends Who Are............AFRAID TO CONFESS

給我害怕去承認的朋友們

Love hurts when you break up with someone. 當你和他/她分手時，你会受到傷害

It hurts even more when someone breaks up with you. 當他/她和你分手時，你更是傷心

But love hurts the most when the person you love has no idea how you feel. 但傷害最深的，是你所愛的他/她并不知道你对他/她的爱



To My Friends Who Are........ENGAGED

給我那已訂婚的朋友們

The true measure of compatibility is not the years spent together 和谐之道并不在于你们在一起了多少年

but how good you are for each other. 而在于对彼此的付出



To My Friends Who Are............MARRIED

給我已婚的朋友們

Love is not about 'it's your fault', but 'I'm sorry.' 爱不是“这是你的錯'，何不说声'對不起'。

Not 'where are you', but 'I'm right here.' 爱不是'你去哪裡了'，何不說声”我就在這兒等著你'。

Not 'how could you', but 'I understand.' 爱不是“你怎麼會這麼做？'，何不說声'我理解你'。

Not 'I wish you were', but 'I'm thankful you are.' 爱不是'我希望你這麼做'，何不說声'我感謝你的一切'。





To My Friends Who Are............STILL HOLDING ON

給我那還在那等待的朋友們

A sad thing about life is when you meet someone and fall in love, only to find out in the end that it was never meant to be and that you have wasted years on someone who wasn't worth it.

人生最傷心的事，是你和他/她愛情長跑了多年，结束的时候才发现你把时间浪费在一个并不值得的人身上。

If he isn't worth it now he's not going to be worth it a year or 10 years from now.

如果他/她現在让你不值得付出，那麼一年，甚至十年後，也一样不會值得让你付出的。

Let him go.....

讓他/她走吧



TO ALL MY FRIENDS.......

給我所有的朋友們

My wish for you is a man/women whose love is honest, strong, mature, never-changing,uplifting, protective, encouraging, rewarding and unselfish.

我竭誠祝福你們找到的他/她，是这样爱着你的：誠實、坚强、成熟、专一、进取向上、保护你、积极、值得你付出和无私

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